<?xml version="1.0" encoding="iso-8859-1"?><rss version="1.0"><channel><title>Diary of meeta mehta</title><link>http://justmeeta.rediffiland.com/</link><description>Diary of meeta mehta</description><language>en-us</language><item><title>Just like that</title><description><![CDATA[<P><FONT face="Estrangelo Edessa" color=#ff8080>Its so strange that while choosing something as big as a life partner , the first thing which is asked for is about the physical appearance of the person.All the newspaper add would be saying "Wanted slim , fair , tall etc etc" .no one ever writes someone whose wise , good at heart , interesting , I mean theres actually so much to look for and ask for rather than just a Barbie Doll. Then next thing maybe what is the qualification of the perspective of bride or groom , how much he or she earns . I dont denigh that these aspects are not important , of course they are . Practically aspects like financial stability of the spouse is definitely of vital importance. But then what kind of a person is he or she , weather we will be compatible or not , weather we will have good time together or not , no one is just bothered about. I mean this is the last thing in most of  the cases , especially conventional arranged marriages. No one is damn bothered about the inner content of the perspective partner , even if  young people try and talk about compatibilty , most of the guy's moms will come running and say "oh beta , see her snaps , she looks so beautiful n naive, I am sure she will be good wife , she can cook well also , she is polite in talking also " .Oh 'common , how can we decide about our life partners on such criterion.<BR>Especially with girls , a little dark skin or a little flab on the waist are enough good reasons for a "no to marriage" ,no matter how intellegent she is , how good she is at heart. These all things are not worth of a bargain of getting a wife or daugther in law ,whose wait size might be more that her would be husband. Even a big and a beautiful heart is dumped for a slim waist line !!!  <BR>This really call for a toast!!!!!<BR></FONT></P>]]></description><pubDate>Sat, 28 Apr 2007 20:36:15 +0530</pubDate><link>http://justmeeta.rediffiland.com/blogs/2007/04/28/Just-like.html</link></item><item><title>I am back home</title><description><![CDATA[Hi everyone , <BR> <BR>This blog of mine is different from the earlier ones ia a way that the Internet connection is very much Indian. Well to say it simply , that I am back in Delhi , back home , after being away for almost 6 months. <BR>So I havnt been able to blog anything since a long time due to the reason  that there were so many things to be done before coming back.<BR>Anyhow one of the best things which happened during these 6 months of being alone n away is nothing else but REDIFF-ILAND . Get introduced to this world has given me a new dimesion in the form of people whom I am connected to basically through thoughts which is so fulfilling . I cant thank u all enough for being there in my world and let me share yours for a while. <BR><BR>Will blog something soon , till then keep smiling no matter what n yes dont dare to forget me.<BR><BR><IMG src="http://immail.rediff.com/htmledit/emoticons/red22.gif"><BR> <BR>]]></description><pubDate>Mon, 26 Mar 2007 13:48:23 +0530</pubDate><link>http://justmeeta.rediffiland.com/blogs/2007/03/26/I-am-back.html</link></item><item><title>Us shikhar mein hissa</title><description><![CDATA[<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"> <?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT color=#ff80ff size=4>Yeh vishwass hai mujhe ki yeh rasta sahi hai</FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT color=#ff80ff size=4>Par kyun pehla kadam rakhte hi </FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT color=#ff80ff size=4>patthar mile saath nahin </FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT color=#ff80ff size=4>To laga ki kuch galat to nahin hai </FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT size=4><FONT color=#ff80ff> <o:p></o:p></FONT></FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT color=#ff80ff size=4>Par nahin yahi woh rasta hai , </FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT color=#ff80ff size=4>Jo sahi hai aur shikhar tak jata hai </FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT color=#ff80ff size=4>Phir samajh mein aya ki </FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT color=#ff80ff size=4>Jin logon ne patthar mara<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">  </SPAN>hai</FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT color=#ff80ff size=4>Woh wahi hai jo kehtein hai </FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT color=#ff80ff size=4>Us shikhar pe haque<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>sirf humara<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">  </SPAN>hai</FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT size=4><FONT color=#ff80ff> <o:p></o:p></FONT></FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT color=#ff80ff size=4>Par mujhe iccha sirf mere shikhar ki hai </FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT color=#ff80ff size=4>Unki bulandiyon se mera koi wasta nahin </FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT color=#ff80ff size=4>Phir bhi jab main us unchayi ki taraf ungli ki aur kaha - woh raha</FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT color=#ff80ff size=4>To kyun unhone us ungli ko morna chaha </FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT size=4><FONT color=#ff80ff> <o:p></o:p></FONT></FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT color=#ff80ff size=4>Khair itna samajhti hun </FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT color=#ff80ff size=4>Ki ungli shayad mur jayegi </FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT color=#ff80ff size=4>Par kadam nahin , </FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT color=#ff80ff size=4>Iishwar saath hai , yeh janti hun </FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT color=#ff80ff size=4>Khud par bharosa hai yeh manti hun </FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0080 size=4>Kisi ko peeche chorne ka nahin par khud ko aage le jaane ka hai suroor</FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0080 size=4>Isliye patthar pare to bhi aage barungi zaroor</FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0080 size=4>Us shikar per mere liye bhi jagah hai</FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0080 size=4>Isliye apni name plate lagaongi zaroor.</FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P>]]></description><pubDate>Sun, 04 Feb 2007 10:48:07 +0530</pubDate><link>http://justmeeta.rediffiland.com/blogs/2007/02/04/Us-shikhar-mein.html</link></item><item><title>Too much of it</title><description><![CDATA[Why the hell are we so supposed to be so much bothered about Abhishek and Aishwarya's marriage ? Its really frustrating to see such a headline about them, what a damn thing is this , they dont have anything to do with our lives , they dont do any good to us or anyone , accept entertaining us(that also aishwarya is pathetic act)  for that job they get whopping amount most of the times undiserved. What more than that they want , why do they have to peep into everyday's headlines. Here and there they keep making and breaking even nuptial promises , why I am supposed to keep an account of each n every damn story of theirs . But yes <FONT color=#ff0000><STRONG><U>I wont mind reading the news right from  when Aishwarya smiled at Abhishek first till which shaving cream is Abhishek going to use on his Wedding day "if and o nly if they pay me for reading such crap.".<IMG src="http://immail.rediff.com/htmledit/emoticons/red10.gif"><BR></U></STRONG></FONT>]]></description><pubDate>Mon, 22 Jan 2007 10:20:45 +0530</pubDate><link>http://justmeeta.rediffiland.com/blogs/2007/01/22/Too-much-of.html</link></item><item><title>Is it God or us?</title><description><![CDATA[<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><U><STRONG><FONT size=4>Is it GOD or us?</FONT></STRONG></U></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"> <?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0080>Being here in Tokyo , I come across questions about religion and God<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">  </SPAN>very often .</FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0080>All of a sudden what I realized is that India boosts of being one of the most religious countries of this cosmos. Well that means in addition to human abilities we have the power of religion, divine faith etc etc. But unfortunately next what knocked my mind was the fact that even in this 21<SUP>st</SUP> century we are nowhere near to being a developed country. Forget development half of us are unsure about even about getting the next meal.</FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0080> <o:p></o:p></FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0080>So who do we blame for this , comparing ourselves from the better nations of the world ,</FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0080>We arenft short of any natural resources , we have ample of vegetation , smart human brains and that too more than we have asked for .In addition to this<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">  </SPAN>we have gGODh existing for us in all shapes colours and sizes. BUT<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">  </SPAN>we are not even near to comfortable nations like US ,JAPAN , GERMANY , UK , ------------------- this is an unending list. So that means our religion has stopped from growing, from asking for better lives for all our selves.</FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0080> <o:p></o:p></FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0080>Well I guess we have left too much on destiny and God and have been under estimating our own human strengths or may be this way leaving things on God and destiny, is an escape route from working hard. Maybe <SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>we have entrusted too much on him , rather than slogging our way to whatever we want .Why have we forgotten <FONT color=#ff00ff><STRONG><U><EM>gGod helps those only<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">  </SPAN>who help themselvesh</EM></U></STRONG></FONT> . Why donft we realize that he has empowered us with an intelligence and physical strength to get what we want, rather than merely going to temples and pleading him to grant our wishes? Why its easier for us to fold hands before him than to use those two hands to write an additional report or to make an additional software or to plough another piece of land etc etc.</FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0080> <o:p></o:p></FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0080>Another thing is of course that isnft it that we spend too much of our time in religious practices .Has God mentioned this is his terms and conditions anywhere . Isnt sincere hard work a better way of praying to God or thanking him. Why is it that taking bath in Ganga can purify us but we cannot help an old person cross a road? We visit the temple twice but we arenft honest to the very next human being. Arenft we <STRONG>gOFF THE MOTIVEh</STRONG> somewhere?</FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0080> <o:p></o:p></FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT color=#ff0080>I GUESS WE HAVE EVEN LET DOWN GOD!!</FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P>]]></description><pubDate>Fri, 19 Jan 2007 18:56:55 +0530</pubDate><link>http://justmeeta.rediffiland.com/blogs/2007/01/19/Is-it-God-or.html</link></item><item><title>HERE COMES 2007</title><description><![CDATA[<P><FONT color=#8080c0><FONT size=4><STRONG><EM><FONT color=#800040>All you Re- landers<BR><BR>So finally Mr.2007 will joining us in a few hours .As all the previous Mr.Years ,Mr.2007 has also make us set our minds  to refresh hopes .<BR>All the dreams n hopes which Mr.2006 did not bother to look at , wishing that Mr.2007 takes good care of them and show them the light of the day as soon as possible. (The reason I used "Mr." for years is just like men they are also good making and breaking promises , n the worst part is we all still pin hopes to a new year just like any female ,I hope you understand what I am trying to say (Men are funny but women can be funnier )).<BR>Specially for the buddies for whom 2006 was tough n trying i hope 2007 will be smooth and smiling .<BR>For whom 2006 was a blessing ,hope 2007 continues the tradition.<BR><BR><BR>The beginning of a year is important for us only for the reason that infuses a new energy into us , to once again hope for good times ,  to start working even harder ,to look at things from a new angle , to try and recondition our way of thinking , to open doors for new thougts n idea , to challenge challenges in a new manner, to replenish our eneries and get going man , party hard to welcome the new year and then aim higher ,slog harder n yes no matter even if you loose the game , dont loose ur spirit since Mr.2008 is there just the next turn of the road.<BR></FONT></EM></STRONG><BR></FONT></FONT><BR><FONT color=#ff0080 size=5>(I thought of writing something good to convey my wishes for new year to all of you , But somehow i landed up at a funny buffet of words , I feel .So in case you loose your patience reading the above stuff , read this last "APOLOGETIC PARAGRAPH".<IMG src="http://immail.rediff.com/htmledit/emoticons/red21.gif">)<BR><BR>Anyways Happy 2007 (in simple words)<BR></FONT></P>]]></description><pubDate>Fri, 29 Dec 2006 12:33:45 +0530</pubDate><link>http://justmeeta.rediffiland.com/blogs/2006/12/29/HERE-COMES.html</link></item><item><title>Tell me why</title><description><![CDATA[Hey All you Out there <BR><BR>Its been more than one month , since I entered this whole blogging scene.<BR>I have been thorouhly njoying it , although I may be lazy to post something myslef but <BR>then I am not lazy to read other's blogs , after readers are the ones for whom the writers write for .<BR><FONT color=#ff00ff size=4>But then tell me one  thing , why do I have so less freinds and so less comments in my I land , I ask you why<IMG src="http://immail.rediff.com/htmledit/emoticons/red2.gif">?<BR></FONT><BR>Even If I write somethin boring , U guys are supposed to be telling me that upfront.<BR><BR>Common now start sendin your replies soon  get it..........]]></description><pubDate>Wed, 27 Dec 2006 20:55:44 +0530</pubDate><link>http://justmeeta.rediffiland.com/blogs/2006/12/27/Tell-me.html</link></item><item><title>Thanks</title><description><![CDATA[<P>Right now I am pretty far off from my home , from my people , from my country , but ofcourse , only physically.Looking back i realize its been long 26 years since I was first introduced to this human world. I dint even realize that I lived for 26 years and  before I pass away another few years of my life without realizing that i did, let me just pause for few moments and just drop a sincere thanks to all made my life worth living.<BR>Ofcrs first of all comes my mom , who brought me to this world. And then fought every battle to bring me up in the right manner , taught me to be myself , made sure that before knowing anyone else I know myself well .Through her actions and not mere words she taught me to be justified in all my actions, theres no better worship that doing good to fellow human beings .She taught me to smile even wider when its difficult to smile.Taught me to not let my emotions come in when it comes to choosing right and wrong , on the other hand do justice to each and every human emotion irrespective of how big or small it is. She made me strong enough to not to give in to any temtations on the cost of my dignity and character.etc etc .In a way she made sure that I am able to justify my life as a human being.Even in difficult times she dint let the tides of adversity come near to any of us ,faced it all alone , like a true fighter .<BR>I hope and prey to God to help me be somewhere near to her as a mother whenever I get to play this role.<BR><BR>Next Ofcrs my dad who was has been a silent support always ,anywhere and everywhere.<BR><BR>After my parents ,yes my lil sis and brother. My younger sister , who always teaches me how to look good , how to match pace with the fast times. Somone who showers oodles of warmth on me and that too on demand and pampers me like a mother, who treats me to mouth-watering dishes .Being completely opposite to me but in a way that she compliments me completely. <BR>My younger brother who keeps all of us smiling and giggling through his jokes .on the other hand even being the youngest he takes his position as a responsible family member , no less than the elder four , whenever required. <BR><BR>And yes now comes turn for my whole jing bang , that is my freinds .I have been so lucky to have wonderful friends around .I owe them uncountable moments of pure joy and happiness. Always being there around ,throughtout in my ups and downs .I honestly feel life cannot be lived even 50% without friends.<BR><BR>Lastly , some one who just entered the stage , my fiance .Thanks to him for making my life even more beautiful , even more worth living. Now he is someone with whom I have share and live my dreams.I sincerely prey to God ,that we are able to justify ourselves as life partners to each other.<BR><BR>And yes all my teachers till now , well they dint have time to discover me , so I thought ....<BR><BR>THANKS GOD FOR BLESSING ME WITH THE PRESENCE OF ALL THESE PEOPLE WHO ,INSPITE OF LIFE'S ADVERSITIES ,HAVE MADE MY LIFE A MERRY -GO- ROUND.<BR></P>]]></description><pubDate>Sat, 09 Dec 2006 20:55:04 +0530</pubDate><link>http://justmeeta.rediffiland.com/blogs/2006/12/09/Thanks.html</link></item><item><title>Something to ponder over</title><description><![CDATA[<DIV class=Section1 style="LAYOUT-GRID:  18pt none"><P class=MsoBodyTextIndent style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 12pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left" align=left><STRONG><U><FONT face="‚l‚r ¾'©" color=#ff00ff size=5>Something to ponder over!!!!</FONT></U></STRONG></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="COLOR: blue"> <?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 'Century Gothic'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">In a quest to move forward and gain more success, rather than our own targets, we set otherfs inputs and outputs as our benchmarks. Well to elaborate more on this, to show ourselves brighter, we are trying to shield light emitted by others, rather than fueling our own lanterns. Thus giving an easy way to negatives like jealousy, unfair competition etc. In constant attempts to outdo others, we completely forget to outdo our potentials. Consequently we end up sidetracking our own strengths and abilities. We get so engrossed in observing others and their success path that we miss the pits as well as the flyovers in our own path. Also, many times we turn our dreams into reality by turning otherfs dreams into ashes.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 'Century Gothic'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"> <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 'Century Gothic'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"> <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 'Century Gothic'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"> <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 'Century Gothic'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">Fortunately as law of nature each one of us is a source of different strengths and abilities, and moreover every individual defines success and failure by different parameters. Then from where this competition creeps in? If we understand this simple fact, then I guess things get simplified automatically. All these diversified abilities and strengths are required somewhere sometime. That means we all have different and significant roles to play so we need to channelise our energies in a way that we land up giving more than 100% to these roles.</SPAN> <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 'Century Gothic'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">This set-up can be taken as, as a group we are asked to complete a big machine together, for this each one of us is provided with different tools and each one has a different part to complete. Now when each and everyone, makes the best possible use of these tools, and completes his own part with perfection, no doubt the efficiency of the complete machine will be much more than expected.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 'Century Gothic'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"> <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 'Century Gothic'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">Everyone can and should have a share in the overall success. And to achieve this we all need to continuously polish and replenish our own strengths. There is an urgent need for all of us to connect more to our natural selves, which is free from any inhibitions, which is equally sensitive for anyonefs dreams, which has enough light of its own to brighten a dark street.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">  </SPAN>In short we need to create such personalities, which ooze out confidence built on true abilities and totally free from any fears about otherfs capabilities. This way we will be able to move together with everyone and that too towards a much more meaningful and wholesome success.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 'Century Gothic'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"> <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 'Century Gothic'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">If we try a bit to inculcate these little things in our daily lives, surely we all are going to make it big. 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COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 'Century Gothic'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"> <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 'Century Gothic'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"> <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 'Century Gothic'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"> <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 'Century Gothic'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"> <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 'Century Gothic'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"> <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 'Century Gothic'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"> <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"> <o:p></o:p></P>]]></description><pubDate>Wed, 22 Nov 2006 22:08:10 +0530</pubDate><link>http://justmeeta.rediffiland.com/blogs/2006/11/22/Something-to-ponder.html</link></item><item><title>Imrana' s case</title><description><![CDATA[<STRONG><FONT face=Arial>Following is exactly copied from 'Hells angels' Blog , <BR>Please read it and and respond <BR><BR><BR><BR>RESPOND!!!!<BR></FONT></STRONG><FONT class=f12 color=#000000><P align=justify><STRONG><FONT face=Arial></FONT></STRONG><P class=MsoNormal><SPAN lang=EN-GB style="FONT-SIZE: 14px; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: Arial Rounded MT Bold"><FONT face=Verdana size=2><STRONG>"IndependenceE<BR><BR></STRONG></FONT><P class=MsoNormal><SPAN lang=EN-GB style="FONT-SIZE: 14px; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: Arial Rounded MT Bold"><FONT face=Verdana size=2><STRONG>"FreedomE<BR><BR></STRONG></FONT><P class=MsoNormal><SPAN lang=EN-GB style="FONT-SIZE: 14px; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: Arial Rounded MT Bold"><FONT face=Verdana size=2><STRONG>"EqualityE<BR><BR></STRONG></FONT><P class=MsoNormal><SPAN lang=EN-GB style="FONT-SIZE: 14px; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: Arial Rounded MT Bold"><FONT face=Verdana size=2><STRONG>Know these words? <BR><BR></STRONG></FONT><P class=MsoNormal><SPAN lang=EN-GB style="FONT-SIZE: 14px; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: Arial Rounded MT Bold"><FONT face=Verdana size=2><STRONG>Imrana ERemember her? The lady was ordered by the Shariat courts (run by men, of course), to accept her father-in-law as her new husband, after he blithely raped her (mother of his FIVE grandchildren). <BR><BR></STRONG></FONT><P class=MsoNormal><SPAN lang=EN-GB style="FONT-SIZE: 14px; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: Arial Rounded MT Bold"><FONT face=Verdana size=2><STRONG>This week, her case comes up for verdict at the Meerut court. <BR><BR></STRONG></FONT><P class=MsoNormal><SPAN lang=EN-GB style="FONT-SIZE: 14px; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: Arial Rounded MT Bold"><FONT face=Verdana size=2><STRONG>It sometimes is VITAL that people respondEBR&gt;<BR></STRONG></FONT><P class=MsoNormal><SPAN lang=EN-GB style="FONT-SIZE: 14px; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: Arial Rounded MT Bold"><FONT face=Verdana size=2><STRONG>There are educated people on the net. <BR><BR></STRONG></FONT><P class=MsoNormal><SPAN lang=EN-GB style="FONT-SIZE: 14px; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: Arial Rounded MT Bold"><FONT face=Verdana size=2><STRONG>There are a few who will come through here.<BR><BR></STRONG></FONT><P class=MsoNormal><SPAN lang=EN-GB style="FONT-SIZE: 14px; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: Arial Rounded MT Bold"><FONT face=Verdana size=2><STRONG>There are those whose blogs are far more popular than mine will ever be. <BR><BR></STRONG></FONT><P class=MsoNormal><SPAN lang=EN-GB style="FONT-SIZE: 14px; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: Arial Rounded MT Bold"><FONT face=Verdana size=2><STRONG>If you feel as well, post on your blogs too, of Imrana, of Justice <BR><BR></STRONG></FONT><P class=MsoNormal><SPAN lang=EN-GB style="FONT-SIZE: 14px; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: Arial Rounded MT Bold"><FONT face=Verdana size=2><STRONG>This is not about Islam<BR></STRONG></FONT><P class=MsoNormal><SPAN lang=EN-GB style="FONT-SIZE: 14px; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: Arial Rounded MT Bold"><FONT face=Verdana size=2><STRONG>This is not about one dignified young woman, fighting for justice<BR><BR></STRONG></FONT><P class=MsoNormal><SPAN lang=EN-GB style="FONT-SIZE: 14px; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: Arial Rounded MT Bold"><FONT face=Verdana size=2><STRONG>This is about our duty to stand up for what is rightEBR&gt;<BR><BR></STRONG></FONT><FONT color=#000080><EM><U><FONT face=Verdana size=2><STRONG>P.S. - This post is of "New Man".... not mine... dint hv nuf time 2 ri8 ma own stuf... jus spredin da news was imp.... n em doin dat.... peace<BR><BR></STRONG></FONT></U></EM><FONT size=2><FONT face=Verdana><STRONG><FONT color=#ff0000><U><BR><BR>******Editing on 17 Oct 06 : 1:15 a.m *******</U><BR></FONT><BR><BR></STRONG></FONT></FONT><FONT face=Verdana color=#ff0000 size=2><STRONG><U><FONT size=4>More about response.(Blog by "NEW MAN" on 17 oct 06 : 00.07<BR></FONT></U></STRONG><BR></FONT><FONT class=f12 color=#000000></P><P align=justify><FONT color=#ff0000><STRONG><FONT face=Verdana size=2>I am thankful for a friend who posted my blog on Imrana.<BR><BR>As I knew there would be, there were a few responses there, on her blog.<BR><BR>Someone said that there should be an initiative from somewhere. <BR><BR>Someone else says that he will join if somebody else starts something. Or, he says that we are only insulting Imrana.<BR><BR>I will say this - firstly, we must be aware of what goes on - so spread the message. That is a response.<BR><BR>Secondly, let us not think globally. Not nationally. Not in our states. Respond in our community - even our own home.<BR><BR>How much do I respect the women in my home? In my community?<BR>Answering those questions is a response.<BR><BR>Then go out, say no ONCE, to some injustice to Woman.<BR><BR>That is a response.<BR><BR>Let the wave grow like ripples in the pond of our apathy. Make the time. YOU deserve to do this as much as women need this to be done.<BR><BR>I am one voice - so is each one of you out there.<BR><BR>Together, we are a chorus. <BR><BR>Raise the chorus.<BR><BR>Let us not be "activists" who come to a meeting, spew poetic words and tears (brought about by their own eloquence), and then disappear into the nearest airconditioned restaurant or bar, to drown their "emotions".<BR><BR>No - let us be individuals, quietly going about our business - but responding in our little ways.<BR><BR>Perhaps, I won't be able to help Imrana. Not a thousand Imranas. But someday, someday in the near future, I hope to help their daughters.<BR><BR></FONT></STRONG><FONT color=#000080><EM><STRONG><U><FONT face=Verdana size=2>P.S. - This edited portion is what "New Man" has to say about the comments I got in my blog. <BR><BR>Sorry again for cut/copy/pasting it like a spineless bich...really no time on hand da...oresle...i reeli had som nice words 4 dat bugga....anyways...ne time i have time..i wud edit this blog...or write a new one on this for sure... till then....please dont criticise 4 ma act...respond to the blog.... peace<BR><BR></FONT></U></STRONG></EM><FONT color=#000000><STRONG><U><BR><BR><FONT face=Verdana size=2><FONT color=#ff0000>******Editing on 22 Oct 06 : 12:31 p.m *******<BR></FONT><BR><BR></FONT></U></STRONG><FONT size=2><FONT face=Verdana><FONT color=#ff0000><STRONG><U>One Last Word about Imrana (Blog by "NEW MAN" on 20 oct 06 : 18.55<BR></U></STRONG></FONT><BR><BR></FONT></FONT><FONT class=f12 color=#000000></P><P align=justify><STRONG><FONT face=Verdana size=2></FONT></STRONG><P class=MsoNormal><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 20px; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: Times New Roman"><STRONG><FONT face=Verdana size=2>Imrana's tormentor has been sentenced to TEN YEARS in prison!<BR><BR>Civil society has responded to one act of barbarity.<BR><BR>It is beside the point if the accused will serve his ten years or not.<BR><BR>It is beside the point if the verdict is changed or not.<BR><BR>It is a matter of principle.<BR><BR>It is all about the limits to man, if he wants to live in Society.<BR><BR>Now, what we need is an awareness in all of us, to forestall any repetitions of such stories.<BR><BR></FONT><EM><U><FONT face=Verdana color=#000080 size=2>P.S - Jus have one question to any one who'z reading this...what do ya think is the right punishment for 'rape'?...nevr got a suitable punishment.... <BR><BR>I THINK THIS WOULD BE THE LAST BLOG OF NEWMAN ON THIS MATTER...AND LAST ONE OF THE SHAMELESS COPY/PASTE ACT BY ME...I DON THINK SORRY CAN EXPLAIN THIS ACT...BUT STILL SORRY FOLKS...A LITTLE FUCKED UP WITH MY LIFE...WILL BE BACK WITH A BANG...FOR SURE...TILL THEN..PEACE</FONT></U></EM></STRONG></SPAN></P></FONT></FONT></FONT></FONT></FONT></FONT></SPAN></SPAN></SPAN></SPAN></SPAN></SPAN></SPAN></SPAN></SPAN></SPAN></SPAN></SPAN></SPAN></SPAN><P></P></FONT>]]></description><pubDate>Fri, 17 Nov 2006 22:40:57 +0530</pubDate><link>http://justmeeta.rediffiland.com/blogs/2006/11/17/Imrana-s.html</link></item></channel></rss>